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A famous Ugandan journalist once asked, “Why are you gay?” It became a meme — and we all laughed at his sincere curiosity. At OBC, we flipped the script: Why isn’t everyone? For over 20 years, we’ve been helping gay men meet without pressure, pretense, or endless swiping. Whether you're looking for a no-strings night out or a friend with benefits, OBC is where things start with a spark — and stay fun.

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From beach cities to college towns, OBC has active members in every corner of the country. Traveling? Settling in? Or just bored on a Thursday night? Fire up the app to meet local guys who are looking for the same kind of fun. Want to get a little more curious? Browse our website to check out real member photos and discover who’s already waiting nearby.

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Signing up is fast, free, and honestly kind of fun. Peek around, see who catches your eye, and when you're ready to level up, go VIP for full access to the features that have made OBC the go-to for casual gay dating. Twenty years strong — and still the most unapologetically fun place to connect.

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Ravi

Been using OBC since 2018 & purchased a lifetime membership. Best for whatever you're looking for... never let me down.

Cyndie

Love it. Not pretentious and most members are polite. It can get overwhelming as a woman, but I don't mind the attention.

Nick

I met someone and we've been dating. We see each other a lot, but it's not exclusive yet, so I'm still around. We'll see where it goes.

Jessie

I did find a diamond in the rough, and I like him, so I'll be taking him to go faster than a takeout restaurant. Thanks OBC!

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At OBC we take a carefree approach to dating online. Dating should be fun, not serious, that's why OBC has millions of profiles of singles who love to date and connect. With our fun and lighthearted approach, you can meet local singles who enjoy dating and being single all at once, with thousands of members joining daily.

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Whether you want to meet new people, make friends, date occasionally, or enjoy no-pressure dating, OBC is the online dating app for you. OBC is also the perfect dating app for those who are recently divorced, rebounding from a previous relationship, too busy to be in a serious relationship, always on-the-go with traveling, or simple afraid of commitment. It's free, easy to join, and tons of fun!

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